The Hero



I was doing my daily peruse of news articles and blogs today and found myself reading so many pieces written about people who are turning out not to be the people we thought they were. Many people, from government representatives to business executives, charity organizers to community do gooders, organization creators to major name athletes, and even well liked characters on our favorite tv shows. One commenter on a blog wrote the well-known line, “How the mighty have fallen”.

In this current technological age we live in, where the finest and most hidden details of a person’s life can be found out in a “hot minute”, the term “hero” struggles, because even the best of people can be brought down by just one moment in their lives. And those that try to show themselves as good people or “heroes”, but are really not, are also found out quickly…and we are disappointed. Our heroes are falling…and there does not seem to be many coming up to follow in their footsteps.

So where do we look for the best example of a hero to hold up? We look within.


I am reminded of the lyrics to a Mariah Carey song from many years ago that was one of my favorite songs ever:

“And then a hero comes along, With the strength to carry on; And you cast your fears aside, And you know you can survive; So when you feel like hope is gone, Look inside you and be strong; And you’ll finally see the truth, That a hero lies in you.”

You have a hero within you…..the one that gets up every morning and faces with day with courage, as best you can, and walks through your day doing all manner of important things to care for yourself, your family, your job, other people…making your mark on the world no matter how big or small. You bravely face this world full of things to be worried and frightened of….and you carry on anyway. You find the strength to march through it all, work hard, try to make a difference, and have the courage to say, I will not be defeated….if even just for today.


YOU are the Real Heroes! So, today, be your own Hero, and hold yourself up in great esteem. Walk tall, head held high…and do not look outside yourselves for a hero…for that Hero lies in You.



14 comments on “The Hero

  1. Mar this is a most profound post holding so much truth.. Yes I see many now being exposed for who they really are.. And yes we are our own heroes most definitely ..
    Thank you Mar for this wonderful encouragement. xxx

  2. Love this, Mar! It does seem that no matter where one turns the gaze, someone or something else is revealed that holds shocking details. Yesterday for example I heard how J&J Baby Powder now has been found to cause ovarian cancer, a product that was used on me and all my siblings. If we don’t find the Hero within, we just set ourselves up for one disappointment after the other. Great piece of writing. It really is good to see you back!!! (smile) ❤

  3. I have to share this with you, if only for the giggle factor.

    I live in Florida, where the insects range from microscopic to 5 inches (or more).

    When I first read the title of this post on the side bar, it said “The Herb.” I wondered if you were talking about turmeric or something like that, so I clicked it on.

    What? The title said “The Hero?” I clicked back to the previous page. It still said “The Herb.”

    Then the | part of the “b” flew away.

    I doubt i was a tiny superhero. 🙂

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