Affirmation Tuesday ~ Mistakes


Since I happen to have been doing Affirmations on Tuesday’s lately, I have now dubbed the day, “Affirmation Tuesday”, officially! So, weekly, I will pull an affirmation card (or two if they pop up) from my “Affirmation Cards” deck by Amy Zerner & Monte Farber and post its message.

Today’s card is:

The Gift of Illumination: “I Learn From My Mistakes And Grow Wise And Strong”

“Use this gift when you are angry with yourself or other people for having made what you consider a mistake. Expectations are often unreasonable, especially the expectation that you can go through life without making mistakes or having to deal with the mistakes of others. Successful people know that mistakes are valued learning experiences.”

from the Desk of MarDrag:

People make mistakes. We ALL have made mistakes at one time or another in our lives. There is, in truth, not one person on this beautiful planet (and likely beyond it!) that has not made Mistakes. But we can be very hard on ourselves and others, and unforgiving, for these Mistakes.

Now, you all know I love words, and I think they all have multiple meanings, if we look for them. So, let’s break this word down:

Mistakes is essentially ~ Mis – Takes.

We, or someone else, missed a take on a situation or issue, and made what we might deem an inappropriate decision or choice, based on the Mis-Take, and made a Mistake. As the quote says above, it is unreasonable to think that we, or someone else, can be so knowledgeable and evolved about everything in life that they would not have a Mis-Take and make some Mistakes along the way.

We learn, in life, by experience and gaining knowledge. But, if we don’t make Mistakes, how do we gain that knowledge. If we know something, we choose and behave accordingly. No Mistake. But, if there is a lesson to be learned, it stands to reason that lesson would be preceded by a Mistake to show us what we need to pay attention to and learn from.

Most certainly, a person can repeat the same Mistake over and over, not getting the message, and frustrating all those around them. But Mistakes are a part of life, and allowing yourself, as well as others, the space to make them without mocking or judgment, then the potential for them to have the focus, energy and self-confidence to overcome the Mistake, learn from it, and move forward, is increased remarkably.

If we have to worry about what others think about our Mistakes, or cause others to worry what we think, then the attention gets diverted from the Mis-Take…and the lesson can be lost. This most certainly also applies to how hard we can be on ourselves, berating  and chastising ourselves over Mis-Takes. When we do that, we lose precious energy that should be spent on recognizing and learning the lesson, implementing whatever changes are called for from that lesson, and then moving on to a better place because of it.

Focus on compassion, for yourself and others, and don’t judge those Mistakes. Make them, learn from them, and grow Wise and Strong from them…and encourage others to do the same.


11 comments on “Affirmation Tuesday ~ Mistakes

  1. Good morning, Mardrag!!!!

    Wow! What a great blog! I really like this because it kinda reframes what mistakes are. Often, I get frustrated by my mistakes. And I really get annoyed when I or someone close to me makes the same mistakes over & and over. Drives me crazy! But today’s blog turned that around – I should be more aware that mistakes are opportunities to learn and grow. In fact, without a mistake or two, success wouldn’t feel so sweet!

    Thanks for a wonderful blog.

    • Bingo….you got it Boobah! Understanding it this way takes the pressure off ourselves, as well as others in our lives….so that we can be our human selves, which is to learn and grow…otherwise we are just robots.

      Glad you liked this and got it! Gold star of the day goes to you….but don’t tell Dee! I haven’t posted her gold star yet! 😛

      Must do a gold star post now, LOL!

      • Busted? I’m innocent! INNOCENT, I tell ya! 😉

        JustDee!!! It’s great to see you!!! You have been missed!

      • Awwww. Thanks Y’all! Miss you too!

        Lately my mom has been getting up early and depriving me of my couple hours morning coffee/quiet/internet time. She’s also been staying up late and depriving me of any evening quiet time. !!!! Makes Me Very Cranky !!!!

        I feel like a Bad Friend though and promise to do better!

      • I am sorry about that JustDee….I know how sacred private time can be, especially in your situation. I know it is hard feeling cranky all the time too.

        You are not at all a bad friend! But stop by when you can for a little relief and to let us know how you are doing. We are here for you!

        BTW – how IS your mom feeling? Last time you mentioned she wasn’t doing too well.

        Love, Light, Hugs, & Support sent your way always!! 😀

      • Oh JustDee – I feel for you. Being a caregiver is hard. (((JustDee))) You are so NOT a bad friend – I think I can safely say that we all understand. You need to take care of you!

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